有人说,孩子的到来是为了恢复人们对生命的信仰.人到了某一个年龄,三十岁,三十五岁,堪或更早,会逐渐发现日子过得千篇一律.重复的早餐,每月得清的卡债,变化不多的菜色,没有新话题的老朋友,还有血管中冷却的血,不再热衷于照镜子,买唱片,赶一部好电影,为身边的人制造惊喜.这是对生活倦怠,悲观,厌烦的开场.
他们也说,当你被那小傢伙驱使得团团转,同时間也驱走了恍惚怔忡,散了倦怠厌烦.你静观他使尽全身气力,为了翻个身而全身涨红.看他吃奶后微迷着眼睛假寝的满足表情,看他尿裤子时愤怒的哭号,他无时无刻都在感觉和学习,他内在似乎有一种声音在告诉他,要赶快成长,才能充分理解和掌握外面那个世界的一切. 把这样一个鲜明的小生命搂在怀中,人就会自然而然地重新相信生存的价值.
这番话,我不晓得其真实性.但我赞同人到某阶段,无可避免地得面对一些困扰.然而,其时間的长或短,却是我们能够掌控的,让它继续打扰我们,还是停止它,我们是有能力办到的.
既然”公在转”,我们何不来个”自转”呢?
Chat with my coli yesterday. we touched one interesting topic (at least, it is interesting to me).
He send his kid to de govt hospital couple days ago. As usual, he gotta waited for few hrs to see de doc (registed on 5 plus in de evening, and see de doc ard 8 plus).
He is a smoker, definately he cant stand long without draw in some smokes. So, he get his ass out of de waiting room. Searching a nice & hidden place to light up a cigarette.
Finally, he got one. near de staircase. He lighted, and charming himself up. After a few puffs, he started to observe hissurroundings. Fuck! it is full of cigerette butts on de floor! Seems it is a good place to “have fun” here. Not long, another 2 guys come & joint de club.
As usual, smokers won’t talk to each other b4 they have a puff. The 2 guys lighted their Salem light. My coli take out his Malboro fresh mint & lighted again.
My coli started de conversation. “waiting long, huh?” he said. one of de guys replied, ” yeah, Govt hospital… as usual.” And they started to chat.
They complain everything abt de hospital, doctors, nurses, even de ministry of health. And my coli mentioned this in sudden. ” why they don prepare a smoking room for us? Ain’t it much more better tt we standing here & smoke?” A guy laughed & said, ” that’s no way! Hospital is a no smoking area…”
And here, my coli suggested tt de govt shld do so, like what de airport did. Have a smoking room for de smokers…
I was kidda impressed by his idea, indeed. He told me what he said to that 2 guys. De Govt is having de “tak nak” campaign nationwide. But everyone of us knows, it is only burning our tax money & not effective.
He said, the govt shld put a smoking room in every hospitals. And de room shld put on those pix abt bad lungs tt coz by smoking… And, they are ppl dies everyday. Why not we take those smokers’ lung & do a “live show” in these smoking room??? Jz put it there & change a new one after a few days.
So, when we step in & wanna have a puff. But u cant stay long & cant even finish a cigarette… u will shout , ” oh~man~” then throw away ya cigarette and walk out of that room.
Kidda cool, right? I’ll buy this idea if Im de minister. This is an alternative way to get ppl stop smoking. Of course, I cant guarantee whether it is work or not. But I cant denied it is a real cool idea!
It might sound funny, but damn… yes, i was laughing my ass out when I heard this fr my coli. Damn, this is funny but he got point.
Some time, we cant jz follow de normal way to do things. Everyone knows tt it is a habit. It is a bad habit! What we can do? We cant stop de smoker… But why don we come fr de back? I don means u go fuck they fr back. I say, since de govt pourded so much ringgits for de campaign. Why don they try some difference ways to counter this?
Stop doing it like a national propaganda. The smokers don give a damn. Pls try to do something tt can lower down de rate, and stop de age getting younger. Pls think, think, think. Or de non-smokers ting, ting, ting…
